The 3 Daily Habits that Instantly Boost Your Confidence
June 21, 2019
It’s normal to be a little insecure at times but if the lack of confidence is holding you back from what you want, it’s a problem. Here are small daily habits that help you bring back the confidence.
For us girls, most girls I mean, we grew up full of insecurities, self-critics and shame. But you don’t need to be PERFECT to feel confident. The maturer you get, the more confident you are. That’s how it’s supposed to work, anyway. But that’s not always reality and, as adults, we have to learn how to be more confident when life get us down. Because there are many aspects of life that do get us down.
You may have been insecure as a little girl and then confident at some point of your life and then lost all of it due to something that happened. You may also be a big girl who never feels how a confident woman should feel like.
And maybe you’re just someone who wants to gain even more confidence than you already have. No matter what your reason is, you can still learn from these small daily habits step by step and grow into a confident, independent and beautiful woman.
#1 Think more positively. Confident people don’t “have it all”, let alone are they perfect. But one thing they have in common is they are optimistic. Being confident isn’t about being able to have whatever you want in your lives. It’s more about believing in yourselves. Every day million things happen, some are good, some are not. Force yourself to see the bright side in each small thing. Take anything (even bad) as an opportunity. Keep this habit in your daily life, you will have a great mind-set for life.
#2 Focus on your life, stop comparing. Oftentimes, we feel bad about ourselves because we keep comparing ourselves with others. In the age of social media, you can browse Instagram thousands of times a day thinking about how the wonderful lives others are living. How desperate you are! But is it true? Firstly the perfect photos posted are filtered, so are the lives you imagined. Secondly, the life you are living depends on what you do with it. If you give yourself more attention, appreciate the little things to cherish in your life, believe me, you will feel different.
#3 Love yourself. When you are not happy with who you are, things tend to get rough. We all take things that we think we deserve. If you don’t think you deserve a great partner, you will probably end up with a wrong type. If you don’t think you deserve a promotion at work, you may miss out something big. Life has more to offer when you start to love yourself, a bit more.
Confident is beautiful. Confidence is something inside you that no matter how others see you they can’t take it away from you. Keep the three little daily habits in your mind, and try to repeat them day by day until they become part of who you are.